Scheduled Backups - Will not copy backup over to remote server - SHH Custom Port

Hi,

I have been struggling with this the whole day and I am still not able to get this to work!!

I want to setup a Scheduled Backup to backup to my second server.

I have set this up to backup over SSH with a custom port.

Everthing connects and start to backup, but it fails every time it has to start copying the file over to the remote server.

I have read all the forums about this and have tried everything - The file is not very large - I have doen a test SSH connection from the server to the remote server - I have done a test SCP from the server to the remote server - I have tried different users - I have tried wrong passwords (which does not let it ever start the backup so it means that my information is correct)

Here is the summary below:

Creating backup for virtual server XXXXXX.org .. Copying virtual server configuration .. .. done Backing up Cron jobs .. .. none defined.

Copying records in DNS domain .. .. done

Saving mail aliases .. .. done

Saving mail and FTP users .. .. done

Backing up mail and FTP user Cron jobs .. .. none to backup

Copying Apache virtual host configuration .. .. done

Copying Apache log files .. .. done

Copying SSL Apache virtual host configuration and certificate .. .. done

Copying Logrotate configuration .. .. done

Dumping MySQL database aihuimin_joomla .. .. done

Backing up Webmin ACL files .. .. done

Creating TAR file of home directory .. .. done

Uploading archive to SSH server XX.XXX.XXX.XX .. .. upload failed! ssh: connect to host XX.XXX.XXX.XX port XXXX: Connection refused lost connection

Please could someone help me out!!!